In Seattle, where I live, Breasfeeding in public is common, and I quickly became comfortable nursing whenever I needed to. On an airplane, however, things are different. You are inches away from someone you've never met, and that person might be any age, gender, or from a culture with different views on breastfeeding. . . and of course you're stuck next to eachother for hours. It's understandable that many moms are anxious about nursing (or pumping) on an airplane, and I want to share my best tricks and tips for making it as easy as possible.
Stay Well Hydrated
My first and most important tip is to stay well hydrated. Flying is dehydrating, especially if you are pumping or nursing. Also, your baby will probably nurse a little more than usual when you are flying. That means that you need to drink enough to offset both the air travel and the extra nursing. Dehydration can not only make jetlag worse, but it can also make you sick. Carry on plenty of water and don't be shy about asking the flight attendant for extra (though they can sometimes be reluctant to give too much to one person)
Where to Sit
Most airlines let you select your seat online when you book or pre-board selected passengers. Try to get a row just for you and your family.
Whether you are nursing or pumping, the best seat is next to a window. You'll have the most privacy, and distractions for the baby are minimized.
The last 5-10 rows of the plane aren't very private because people wait in line for the bathroom there, and there is always a lot of activity around the galley. Still, the further back you sit, the more likely you are to have an empty seat next to you. I prefer to sit about 2/3 of the way back to balance both considerations.
What To Wear
Wear comfortable, loose fitting clothing. For travel, I like the Blue Canoe Jane Bras. They're not supportive enough for elegant evening wear, but they're comfortable and provide easy access for baby or a pump with no clips to fasten and unfasten.
Nursing On An Airplane
The two main considerations for nursing on an airplane are maximizing privacy for yourself and minimizing distractions for baby. You are also "living" in close quarters with the people around you, and will want to minimize their discomfort as well.
Pumping on an Airplane
It's even more difficult to pump on an airplane than it is to nurse, but sometimes (for example on a very long flight) it is necessary. Here are my tips to pumping in flight easier
- If you plan to pump in the bathroom, try to do it early in the flight, during meal service, or during the movie when the lines for the bathroom are shortest (and tying one up for 20 minutes will be the least disruptive). Bring along everything you need, and remember that you should never wash bottles or pumping accessories with airplane water because it is unsafe for babies
- If you plan to pump in your seat, the best times are during takeoff (after they've announced that it's ok to turn on electronic devices) while meal carts fill the aisles, and during the movie because passengers move around least during these times.
- Make sure you are familiar with how to use your pump before you fly. You don't want to be fussing with cords in your snug airplane seat.
- Pump hands free. The Hands Free Pumping Bustier is probably the single best product I had for pumping (besides the pump itself). It is a breeze to slip on over a nursing bra, and you can hook the pumps up without needing to see what you are doing. Best of all, your hands are free to help baby, use a laptop, or read a book once you are set up.
- Cover up with a baby blanket or jacket. There's no need to bring a special coverup for pumping on a plane as long as you have something along that is big enough to give you privacy.
- You can ask a flight attendant whether they have a place to store your milk and keep it cold. Often they are able to help on longer flights. Make sure your milk is well labeled and watch where it is stored (both to make sure it doesn't get lost or isn't put in the wrong place.) I once handed my milk to a flight attendant, she placed it on the counter, and another flight attendant (not knowing it was to be kept cold) warmed it and brought it back to me. The flight had no ice, and my son wasn't hungry for another hour or two, so I ended up throwing away that hard won milk.
Do you have favorite tips or personal stories about nursing on an airplane that you'd like to share? Let us know in the comments.
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