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1. Louise Stoll

   February 27, 2008 at 7:14 a.m.
   

   Hi Debbie;

   I loved your write up about traveling safely on airplanes with small kids. I'm Louise Stoll, the grandma who invented the CARES child aviation restraint system, and now managing Kids Fly Safe, LLC, the company distributing CARES. CARES was inspired by watching my daughter, Miriam, then 8 months pregnant, emerging from an airplane to visit us carrying a toddler, a 20 lb car seat and a diaper bag. I KNEW there had to be a better way!Hence CARES.

   Keep up the good work!

2. Debbie

   February 27, 2008 at 10:26 a.m.
   

   Thanks for checking in! I'm thrilled to hear that you liked the writup. Your product has made air travel loads easier for our family.

3. MetaMommy

   February 27, 2008 at 2:12 p.m.
   

   This is a topic near and dear to me. We've been traveling with my son since he was 4 months old. We've used the Sit N Stroll (http://www.lillygold.com/), and have been relatively happy with it. However, we tend to fly to Ireland via fly Aer Lingus, and on occasion they give us such a hard time about using it. It's FAA approved, but for take-offs and landings, flight attendants have insisted that we remove him from the 5-point harness belt and hold him in our lap with the joke of a belt they provide for babies. I say they insist on occasion because they either don't bat an eyelash, or they insist so profusely that we either (1) hold our son, or (2) get off the aircraft. However, my husband called the airline and their policy is a bit garbled. So much so that he was able to convince the agent that it was indeed safer to use the car seat for take-offs and landings.

   My long-winded point is that if you're traveling with a car seat internationally (moreso than domestically because other countries don't rely on FAA standards), you might consider calling the airline to verify their policy. Further, if you can get anything in writing, that will make your journey that much more pleasant if you are confronted about your seat.

4. Shannon

   April 7, 2008 at 11:35 a.m.
   

   Hi Debbie,
   We just purchased the CARES system for at trip we're taking to Mexico next month with our two-year-old. Last year, we took him to Hawaii and brought his car seat on the plane, and also used it in our rental car. It worked very well on the plane, and was easy to take through the airport (we used the TravelMate system with it), but a pain to lug down the aisle of the plane (the aisle was too narrow to roll it). This time we don't have a rental car, so we decided to give CARES a try.

   My questions are: Have you ever had a problem with airline personnel not accepting it? I contacted our airline, and received an email stating they would accept it, but I'm still a bit nervous...
   Also, have you ever had a problem with the person sitting behind the seat, since the strap has to go under their stowed tray table?

   Thanks!

5. Debbie

   April 7, 2008 at 11:51 a.m.
   

   Shannon,

   First of all, have a great trip to Mexico!

   I have never had a problem with the airline personnel accepting the CARES harness (though they've asked questions a couple of times). We always bring along the printed documentation for the harness (which shows that it is FAA approved). Since you were organized enough to also get email from the airline, I would bring a printed copy of the email as well. If you do get questions from the flight attendants, you'll be well prepared to answer them.

   I've never had a problem with the person sitting behind us (possibly they're just glad that they're not sitting in front of a toddler ;) The CARES harness doesn't interfere with the operation of their tray table, so unless they're just bothered by having the tray down for a few minutes while you get things set up, there isn't really any reason for them to complain.

   With both flight attendants and other passengers, we try to remember that we already have two strikes against us (D & E) when we step on board a plane. We're extra sensitive and extra polite, especially with all the recent news about flight attendants having people kicked off planes for various reasons.

   Debbie

6. Meg

   May 14, 2008 at 6:22 a.m.
   

   Hello. I travel by rail with my son frequently. Now that he is an "active" toddler, I find it very stressful to take trips by train. My son never sits still and I spend the entire trip making sure that he is out of the aisle, not bothering other customers, or hurting himself. There isn't any restraint system and taking the car seat isn't an option when travelling alone. I see that there is such a restraint for the airplane but can't find one that would work on the train. Do you or other readers know of any restraint system that might work on the train where there aren't any seatbelts. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

7. Debbie

   May 15, 2008 at 2:48 p.m.
   

   Meg,

   This is tricky. On the upside, we find train travel much easier overall than flying, there's more space to move, there's less security and waiting time at the station, and train stations are generally closer to the downtown area than airports. One of the downsides is the inability to keep your child safe by securing them with a seatbelt. Having a child wandering around on a (sometimes) lurching train isn't great, even if the cabin was empty of other passengers.

   Unfortunately, I'm not aware of a harness that works without using a built in lap belt, but here are some other ideas:

   There is usually a handicapped seat somewhere on the train (a regular seat with an empty space next to it to accommodate an wheelchair). If nobody is using the handicapped seat, you can sit there and seat your son in his stroller next to you. Sometimes (rarely) there is even a strap designed to secure the wheelchair into the space.

   Whenever possible, wear your son out by visiting a playground before you get to the train station. At two, he's probably practicing his jumping skills, and he can practice hopping in place in all but the most crowded train stations without disturbing anyone.

   Take a break from your seats and visit the dining car (where there's generally some open space) and the other cars near yours. A chance to explore should help satisfy some of his curiosity, and give him something to think about when he returns to his seat.

   Do everything in your power to keep him occupied and happy in his seat. Here are some of our favorite tips:
   Keeping A Toddler Busy: http://www.deliciousbaby.com/journal/...
   Homemade Travel Toys: http://www.deliciousbaby.com/journal/...

   I hope this helps,
   Debbie

8. Donna

   May 22, 2008 at 1:34 p.m.
   

   Where can I buy a car seat for a toddler that can be used on a plane? I need one that sits up high enough so she can see out the window. Thanks Donna

9. Debbie

   May 27, 2008 at 4 p.m.
   

   Most infant and convertible car seats are FAA approved and can be used on a plane, and the windows are low enough that a toddler seated in a car seat should be able to see out the window.

   Good resources for buying a car seat online include:
   http://www.amazon.com
   http://www.babycenter.com
   http://www.babystyle.com

10. Christy

    June 30, 2008 at 6:58 a.m.
    

    We are getting ready to make our first trip with our daughter who will be approximately 15 months at the time of our trip. My husband and I are debating on if we should purchase another seat and use her car seat (it will be needed once we get to our destination) or if we should just hold her in our lap. I can't see her sitting still on our lap, but also see her wanting out of her car seat. The flight is only an hour and I think her ticket will be relatively cheap. Does anyone have any suggestions?

    Regards,
    First time traveling with toddler

11. christine

    July 27, 2008 at 8:33 p.m.
    

    I am flying with my 22lb, 12 month old son to London/Paris from NYC in a few weeks. I really would like to leave the car seat at home, but am worried he is too young/small for the CARES restraint. Also, it is a night flight, so I am hoping he will sleep - are kids really able to sleep while strapped in with CARES? If not, do you just take it off and put the lap belt loosely around them? We did buy him a seat and his father and I will be on either side of him. What do you think - CARES or car seat (with the cheeky monkey pac back)? thanks in advance

12. Debbie

    July 28, 2008 at 9:56 a.m.
    

    My son sleeps well with the CARES harness, but of course every child is different. I think it depends more on whether you need a carseat at your destination. If you do not (we don't use one for Paris or London), than CARES is perfect. If you are planning to bring a carseat, than the safest place for it is on the plane, not in checked baggage.

    Hope this helps,
    Debbie

13. IdahoSEO

    November 6, 2008 at 4 p.m.
    

    I am a mother of 3 who has traveled many times with just one to all three of my kiddos - and solo to boot! I actually prefer to bring my car seats because I can get the airline ticket agent to provide an escort to the plane with the seats. We are all then able to bypass the security lines to go in the special access. It saved us from missing our plane once last Summer due to extremely long lines! Then I generally, not 100%, but generally have been granted first boarding onto the plane. It's been a real time saver! And my toddler, who insists on being in his seat, is accustomed to sleeping in it and doesn't wander because they know they have to stay in the seat (and BTW - it does give them the lift to see out the window) just as they do in the car. So, for me I completely prefer the car seats with my toddlers.

14. Debbie

    February 11, 2009 at 2:06 p.m.
    

    Kristen,

    It can be difficult for even the most well behaved child (or adult) to sit still for several hours.

    Here are some ideas that might help:

    - Schedule some time at a playground on the morning of your flight or arrive early at the airport and find an empty gate area to run in
    - Give your son milk and a protein rich (not sugary) snack as the plane takes off. The chewing/sipping will help with his ears and both the milk and the protein will help make him drowsy
    - Try to plan some new and fun activities for the plane - because he is small, he might even be able to sit "chris cross applesauce" in the seat" (which would help with the kicking
    - At the first sign of the jiggles, take your son out of his seat and let him go for a walk, that way he'll use some of his excess energy before he has a chance to discover seat kicking

    With respect to the CARES and seatbelts specifically: Yes, hopefully the belt will fit better now that he is older, and there is no reason not to recline the seat while the plane is in flight.

    If you are really having a difficult time, it is legally ok to remove the cares harness and use just the lap belt (but just as in a car, a 5 point harness is safer than a lap belt). It is also ok for the child to have their seatbelt off whenever the seatbelt light is turned off.

    As with an adult, in the seat with the seatbelt fastened is the safest place for a child, but I often let D drift off to sleep in my arms and then move her back to her seat. She thinks that is a real treat.

15. Sarah

    September 7, 2009 at 11:43 a.m.
    

    I read the article and went to the link for CARES...and it's $70!!!! Good grief, it's just a 5-point harness. Why on earth does it cost so much money? It costs as much as a car seat, but is only functional on an airplane. Ridiculous. They need to bring the cost down to about $25 to make it a realistic purchase for many parents.

16. Debbie

    September 7, 2009 at 8:49 p.m.
    

    Sarah,

    It is expensive, I agree. Believe it or not, the price has actually come down from when we first bought ours.

    My guess is that it took quite a bit of money to do the safety testing and get the FAA approval for the harness, so that would be built into the cost of the product.

    I have occasionally seen it on sale for as low as $50 on Amazon... still not cheap, but much better.

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